Sunday, December 27, 2009

Mean people Suck :)

I love getting comments on my blog. I like to be open and honest with everyone who happens to read my blog in hopes that the struggles and little victories in my life could in turn help you. But for the third time, derogatory comments about me have been posted by an “anonymous commentator”. I write from my heart, and to be criticized by someone who hides behind anonymity, really does hurt me. I wrote sincerely to express gratitude to the many people who have helped us through this financially difficult time. I wish that I could do this without fear of being mocked for my lack of spelling skills. This is a personal blog and reflects the real me and the real me can’t spell. Its something I’m aware of but not ashamed of. If anyone out there knows how to find the IP address of someone leaving an anonymous comment, I would love to hear it.

11 comments:

Hilary said...

That is just crazy -- I mean seriously, what is wrong with someone if they fill their time by proofreading people's blogs anonymously! That's just weird, stupid and rude.
You could set up your comments so they don't post until you read them and approve them first, but it's just as easy to delete it once it posts too . . . or even leave it, since it only makes 'anonymous' look like a loser, not you!

Jill said...

Seriously, What a LOSER!!! He/she must be an extremely bored jerk.

Enough said!

Write on Melissa!

John and Sherri said...

I agree, mean people suck!!! I think it just shows that some people have no life! We all love you:)

Rachael said...

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. If you go from your blog dashboard, click on settings, then comments... change "Who can comment" to registered users only. That might help you. Most jerks don't like to admit to who they are.

Keri said...

This has happened to me too!!! It's one reason I went private. I think it's even more ridiculous that the person has to remain annonymous.....you should put on that live-feed, but it won't help now. I'm not sure how to find out who it is, but I wish you could. What a loser. Don't let them get you down! I love you and you have lots of good friends!!!!

marshfam said...

Mean people DO suck. I'm glad you have a fridge. We have been going without a dryer for a while, not that long, but it's been difficult to dry things over the backs of couches and in front of space heaters, etc. when you have a family of 5!! My inlaws generously found one on ksl and bought it for us, so we are fortunate to not be without anymore. It is wonderful to have angels in our lives who help us out with our needs.

Anonymous said...

I told Chad about this at work but I'm not sure if he relayed the message on to you. I found google analytics which gives you alot of information about the people reading your blog, It doesn't give an IP address but it tells you where they are located and such. You can find it at the following website:
http://www.google.com/analytics/

Here is an example screen shot of what information you can see:
http://kayleerichardson.blogspot.com/2009/11/google-analytics.html

Michelle said...

Wow, that's just ridiculous! Don't let people like that get to you. Who cares if you spell a word or two wrong! Seriously! Love you! Keep blogging :)!

Tiffany said...

I hate that!! That is actually why we went private, because we were getting upsetting comments from an annonimous person! Seriously if you don't like it don't read ya know! Anyway I love your blog, so you really shouldn't change a thing! :)

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